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Pure Desire Ministry
at Cornerstone Community
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The Pure Desire Ministry, led by Mike O’Neal and co-led by Tom Trebing, is available for support and guidance.
All of us struggle with some form of sexual brokenness, whether through our thoughts, actions, or the effect of others actions toward us. We believe that God made us inherently sexual beings and thus a core component of Christian discipleship must include hope, healing and freedom in our sexuality.
Cornerstone Community Church is proud to partner with Pure Desire Ministries, who have been leading the way for many years to help men and women find hope, freedom, and healing from sexual brokenness through Jesus Christ. They develop the materials, we lead the groups. Pure Desire groups support men, women and teens in their recovery by providing a safe, confidential place to process their life story: learning how family of origin, traumatic experiences, and wounding messages impact relationships.
Current & Upcoming Groups: (Under development)
Seven Pillars to Freedom: Helps men gain a greater understanding of the addiction process and how to break free from unwanted sexual behaviors, providing the safety, support, and tools needed to establish lifelong healing. Biblically and clinically based. These high commitment small groups typically run for about 10 months and has 4-6 people.
The Compassionate Warrior: This 20-lesson group experience is intended to take men deeper in their healing: deeper in relationship with God, with the people they love, with their family and friends, and even with themselves. This journey is holistic. It will address aspects of what they need to be healthy in several areas of their lives: physically, emotionally, relationally, sexually, and spiritually.
Betrayal & Beyond: For women who have suffered betrayal due to the sexual issues of their partner. Healing comes from understanding the role of trauma, establishing healthy boundaries, exploring the depth of forgiveness, and learning to live in restoration. Designed to reveal the truth and nature of sexual addiction, how women are wounded by their partner’s behaviors, and the roadmap to healing. These high commitment small groups typically run for about 8 months and include 4-6 people.
Living Free: Specifically designed for teens (15-18) and college-aged young men, Living Free identifies the underlying factors that create and reinforce compulsive sexual behavior. Intended for a small group and planned around a semester system, Living Free combines clinical data and biblical truths to create the foundation for lifelong healing and freedom.
This 8-week guide was created to help moms and daughters move beyond one-and-done conversations and build a lasting culture of connection. Each week includes Girl Talk prompts—simple, guided questions and tools to spark honest conversations, connection, and reflection.
An 8-week video training course for men and women, students, pastors, lay leaders, parents, and more. It’s for anyone who wants to find freedom from the effects of unwanted sexual behaviors and betrayal and help others to do the same. This course will show how shame and grace affect the healing process, give understanding about addiction and betrayal trauma, and get you started on the path to sexual health.